如何独自参加尴尬和厌烦的社交活动

Attending social events solo can feel awkward and icky, even for extroverted types. Networking events are especially tough, since there’s a lot riding on your ability to make a good impression. But, you don’t have to skip out on a great career opportunity, just because you don’t have a plus-one on your RSVP. Head to your next event with your head held high and a stack of business cards in your pocket. Here are some ways to embrace the solo flying and get some networking done.

独自参加社交活动会感到有些尴尬和厌烦，即使是性格外向的人，也是如此。社交活动尤为困难，因为你需要依靠自己的能力来给他人留下好印象。但是，你也不要因为自己没有附加的资源预留协议，就让非常好的事业机会偷偷溜走。抬头挺胸去参加下一个社交活动，在口袋中装上一沓商务名片。下面市一些让你享受独自坐飞机完成一些社交活动的方法。

1. Don’t Put Baby in a Corner

1.不要躲在角落里

If you’re anxious, you might feel a bit like a caged animal when you hit the crowd. Instead of hiding in the corner, put yourself where the animals like to congregate: by the food or drink. Most networking events have some kind of offering of one or the other, if not both (and you should get your money’s worth, after all). When you put yourself near the vittles, you can create a title for yourself: Expert. Offer advice on what tastes good to those approaching the watering hole, and then swoop in with an easy introduction and handshake. BOOM, you’re networking.

如果你感到焦虑，当你在人群中的时候，你会感觉有点像被困在笼子里的小动物。不要躲在角落里面，要让自己像其他动物一样聚在一起：吃东西，饮酒。大多数社交活动，一般是以邀请的一种形式或者其他形式参加，如果都不是的话（毕竟你需要让你花的钱有价值。）当你站在食物旁边的时候，你可以给自己一个封号：专家。给酒吧附近位置的美食提一些建议，然后吃一些东西，并简单介绍一下自己，与他们握手。喔噢，你正在进行社交哦！

2. Talk to the People You Know: The Organizers

2.与你认识的人交谈：组织者

You might have come alone, but you will always know (even just by name) the event organizers. Seek them out, and make sure to introduce yourself to them (and pass out the all-important business cards, too). That way, even if your gumption fails and they’re the only ones you speak with all night, you’ll at least have a few new contacts, and impressive ones, too!

或许你是独自参加社交活动，但是你一般都会认识（甚至只是知道名字）活动组织者。找到组织者，确保向他们介绍你自己（给他们发所有重要的商务名片）。这样，即使你精疲力竭了，他们也是你整晚唯一需要交谈的朋友，至少你能够接触一些新的商业朋友，以及一些印象深刻的人。