女性们分享了那些爱上自己的时刻
There comes a point in every woman's life when she finds her own enough-ness — when she realizes she doesn't need validation from a relationship, or anywhere for that matter. It's the watershed moment when she falls in love, not with someone else or with the idea of someone, but with herself.
每位女性都会经历这样的时刻：觉得有自己就足够了——也就是当她发现自己不需要恋人的认可或其他人的认可时。这就是她爱上自己而不是爱上他人的转折点时刻。If you're not there yet, don't worry... you'll get there. We each come to that place in our own special time and, well, it's always worth the wait. In the meantime, you can glean inspiration from the following real women who shared that turning point in their lives.
如果你还没有这种经历，请别担心，终有一天你会爱上自己。每个人爱上自己的时刻都与他人不同，而且这一刻总是值得等待。同时，你也可以从其她女性的实例中获得灵感来源。
1. With age, comes wisdom
1. 随着年龄增长的是智慧
"For me, the turning point came when I hit the age of 30. I left all problems from my 20s with my 20s. I felt lighter, happier — just all-around good. From where I was then to where I am now, words can't describe the change in the way I feel about myself. I don't care what people think now... I'm always gonna do me and be me."
“对我而言，我在30岁的时候爱上了自己。我将20多岁时遇到的问题留在了过去。我变得更加轻松，也更加快乐——整个人都好起来了。从20多岁一路走到30多岁，我已经无法用言语形容我自身发生的变化。现在的我根本就不在乎他人的想法。我永远都会按照自己的原则办事。”2. Build others up
2. 鼓舞他人"I think a watershed moment for me was after a home run derby in a softball tournament when I was in high school. I had always excelled at sports but never realized the impact my game had on those around me, until that day. After the derby, a group of young tee ball players (girls and boys) came up to me and asked for my autograph. I had never once thought about the eyes watching me or the difference I could make until then. It was from that moment on that I made sure I was a positive role model for young female athletes. Knowing you have the power to influence the trajectory of someone else's life by leading by example is extremely powerful for your own psyche. It makes you walk a little taller and love yourself even more than you might have before. I might not be famous today with people asking for my autograph, but I use every chance I get to try to build up female athletes at all levels."
“我在高中参加了一次本垒打垒球竞赛后爱上了自己。我一直擅长体育运动，但在那天以前，我从未意识到自己的这份热情对周围人产生的影响。在本垒打竞赛后，一群年轻的球手（男孩儿女孩儿都有）来到我身边，请我给他们签名。直到那时，我才意识到原来有那么多双眼睛在盯着我以及我能起到的积极作用。从那时起，我确保自己成为年轻女性运动员的楷模。知道自己可以通过以身作则而改变他们的人生轨迹也深深震撼着我的内心。这会让你比以往更加努力，也更爱自己。现在的我也许并不出名，人们也不会请我给他们签名，但我会利用每一次机会，为每一位女性运动员打气加油。”
