让他知道你在乎他的10个方式(除了我爱你)(下)
6. Show your partner that you trust him implicitly.
6.委婉表达你的信任
If you can't do this, you need to do some work to get that part of your connection working correctly. love can't flourish in a world of distrust.
如果你做不到这点，那你得多努力努力了。这世上没有爱情不是建立在信任的基础之上的。7. Give him little inexpensive gifts for no reason.
7.没理由地送点小礼物
Giving is a process, not an event, and is something that should happen on a daily basis. Yes, you want to celebrate big events like birthdays and holidays, but the giving that comes from the heart should be something that your partner receives regularly.
送礼物不是一蹴而就，而是细水长流，渗透在日常生活的点滴里。没错，你会想要庆祝一些盛大的日子，比如生日或者节日，但装满爱心的礼物，应该要让你的伴侣时常感受得到。8. Speak in a soft tone so you're not mistaken for being upset.
8．语气温和，他才不会误会你心情不好
I know that sometimes if I drop something and it startles me, I can yell real loud and the whole house erupts. But now I've learned to just say "Oops!" so everyone knows I'm okay and that nothing bad happened.
我知道，我有时候掉了什么东西或者被什么吓了一跳，会忍不住大喊大叫，声音大到整栋楼都听得到。但现在我学会简单地用一句“天呐！”代替，这样别人就知道这儿没什么大事。9. If you're not the regular cook in your home, make him something fabulous.
9.如果你不常下厨，你可以送他个爱心便当
The first time I did this, she thought I had ordered it from a restaurant (guess I'm a better cook than I thought).
我第一次为女朋友下厨的时候，她还以为我是点的外卖（看来我的厨艺比我想象中要好不少）。10. Spend as much of your free time together.
10.一起度过闲暇时光
If you're going to watch TV, at least sit on the same couch and hold hands or put your arms around one another. Closeness and communication are what makes a relationship work.
你们如果要看电视，至少坐在一张沙发上，牵着小手或者把胳膊搭在她肩上。亲密交流一直是促进感情升温的法宝。Caring and closeness are what make life worth living and anyone can improve upon how they treat the people they love. Remember that showing you care is much more powerful than just saying it.
关爱与亲密让一段感情更加持久。而在与爱人相处的这门功课里，每个人都还有上升空间。
